Did I make the right decision?

It's not what someone else thinks, it's how you feel about this young man and what you want out of life. I tell my oldest daughter whose about to have a baby herself that she needs to think about her future and where she wants to be in life. Having someone in your life who is not doing anything positive with themself will only bring you down. This young man seems like he is trying to be hard core which is not good, now a days people are dying (especially the young) over silly stuff. I don't know if you are in church but I tell my children to pray about things and listen to what God has to say; the right man will come allow God to bring that person just don't settle for anything. If you don't love him you shouldn't feel guilty. Maybe God is trying to show you this person true colors. Have faith and wait on the Lord. I know from first hand experience when you choose something that is not right for you and don't heed the warning signs that are going off. My youngest daughter even through I love her and thank God that I have her, I should have waited.